I read somewhere about some women like a change of pace. They don't always want it hard and fast, but sometimes that like it slow & sensual.

Well, I decided to try it out one night with an occasional friend, who I will call "Cathy". We started out with some 69, lying side-by-side for maximum accessibility to the good bits.

I lapped at that sweet pussy for all I was worth, I put my tongue inside her, flicked it around and across her clit, even teased her arse a little. She was grinding hard against my face as she came. After about
10 or 15 minutes of this, Cathy asked me to fuck her.

Now, it was only a few years ago that I was made aware by different women that my cock was thicker than average. Yes, that sounds dumb that I didn't know, but us guys can be dumb. Sometimes we need to be told something 3 or 4 times before we finally get the message. So after slipping on a condom, and a bit of lube, I slowly started to enter her pussy. And I mean slowly, just really short movements forward and back, each time advancing slightly deeper. This was driving her crazy with anticipation with each short stroke. It probably took about 5 minutes before I was fully into her.

I then began the SlowMo fucking, almost teasing her in a sensual way. Very gradually, our excitement grew.

Now, when a man gets close to an orgasm, the urgency increases very quickly, like a graph that has a gentle upward slope that increases to a steep high curve just before he comes. With the SlowMo, the time line is stretched so that you stay at a particular level of intensity for much longer, and with more control.

This is what happened to me. I found that I was able to feel more connected to her, because I was able to feel how she was reacting inside. Because of this, I found that I was able to control the level of intensity, gradually increasing it, then lowering it. We would stay at each level for a minute or two before changing it. At one stage, it felt so intense, I was almost crying with the pleasure of it. The fact that I have studied Tantra certainingly helped me maintain control over my urges.

By this time, Cathy was cumming almost continuously. Because I was controlling my movements, I was able to keep going, stroking slowly in & out as she orgasmed, allowing me to keep her at that level for 2 or 3 minutes. Then I would lower the intensity before gradually increasing it. I did from time to time fuck her harder for a few moments before slowing the pace again.

After about 40 minutes, we finally came together. Later she told me that she had had 10 orgasms. Up to then, I didn't know she kept statistics. I saw her again a few times after that, and each time it got better & better.

Go one for SlowMo orgasms