I have been a member of AMM since 2005 for the purposes of swinging within a open relationship originally.

and yes there are truly genuine open relationships here not just the charades.

iv been through a seperation, and one night quite late in june 06 when the chatroom was near empty I happened across a lovely gentleman and the beginnings of a relationship emerged.

Now in 2008 we have been through hell and back with the worst string of bad luck, and yet our relationship and love for each other only grows stronger.

he is a loving step father to my children and a soul mate for me.

and to think late one night when I shouldve been sleeping but couldn't for the cold, I found him here and Invited him over for the purpose of using him as a hot water bottle.