I've been using AMM on and off for years and have found it perfectly satisfactory, and sometimes terrific fun (although I'm not going to find my next husband there). And as one of my dates pointed out - with AMM you know that with the people you meet sex isn't going to be a problem: which you can't say for RSVP. As a woman, you are completely deluged every time you put up a new profile - even if you have no picture. For men who say 'it is full of time wasters' - this is not really the case - rather that women who are interested in a casual thing can absolutely pick and choose: you want a 24 year old six foot six huge black guy or a wealthy barrister - well you can! For guys who are reasonably smart, nice and persistant - the site tends to pay off too.

A lot of the male profiles are very lazy and similar, but this isn't the fault of the website. Also all the 1000s of sad married guys seem to think they have something to offer single women; tho once again this is a product fault rather than a website issue.

This site is absolutely great for girls!! For men who are actually ok and prepared to work at it - it is also quite satisfactory. Also, a gender imbalance on an adult site is gender difference at work, not the fault of the service provider.