I have to say that I first dipped the toes in these sex sites very tentatively last December looking very specifically for a special man to be hopefully a long-term lover. It certainly took some time, but I have to say that both the journey, but more importantly the outcome has been worth the time, effort...and perseverence.

I think the trick is to be clear in what you want, stick to it...and know when to be happy when you've found it, and not want to keep endlessly searching.

I am extraordinarily happy to have found a wonderful, kind, engaging...entirely gorgeous lover through this site. ..And so I am now exiting. Good luck to you in finding what you seek; be it a short-term fling, or longer term liaison.