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Secret Life: The Journey Begins with a Great Lover

As you all may have known by now I've been in and out of AMM for a year or so since 2008. I've done 1 on 1 random sex with some guys, I've been to swingers and parties but what I have not done along this journey is to share this with a lover. A lover who brings out a side of me that I've kept hidden, a side that not everyone can understand and a side that sometimes scares me.

After taking myself off AMM for nearly a year, I ventured back sometime in July 2009. As usual, any new girls or come back in AMM, we get a lot of messages within a day. I read through all the messages and not a lot impressed me and a few caught my attentions. I had also received a couple of invitations from the club that organises swingers that I used to go to when I first started in 2008. My come back event was a swinger party with that club and at that time I've been chatting with a guy that approached me. The first message he wrote was what caught my attention and the subsequent messages got my interest and I was pretty intrigued with his quirky sense of humour. But I was a little nervous with meeting up 1 on 1 as I have not done so for nearly a year and not sure what to expect.

The first time we get on MSN, we chatted for the whole night and then on the phone for nearly an hour while I was in bed ready to sleep. It was a pretty intense conversation but yet somewhat easy. So with that phone call chat, we decided to meet up for dinner the next time we chat on MSN. Date and time had been set but due to bad weather I cancelled on him and rescheduled. By that time he probably thought I was a fake and I could sense he was probably loosing his interest. But he persisted and makes another date. This time we decided to meet up in the afternoon at his place then go out for lunch. Little did I know; that meeting is the beginning of a great and intense journey for both of us.
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It was a nice sunny spring Saturday afternoon and I was on my way in the tram to meet up with him. I was nervous but a little excited to finally meet up with this guy whom I had spent quite a lot of time chatting on MSN. I reached but had a little trouble finding his place so I gave him a call and he directed me to his doorstep. From the front porch, he looks alright; tall and lean but nicely built just how I like my men. We greeted with a cheek kiss and then he showed me around and we went out for lunch as we both were pretty hungry by then. Lunch was at a cosy Japanese restaurant, nothing too dandy or too bad, just right for the sunny afternoon. After lunch, we went back to his place to hang out. I knew by then that something would happen but deep down I wasn't sure if I was ready for that as I just came out from a relationship. But I was pretty up to see what would happen and he seemed like a nice guy.

We sat on the couch and talked for a bit from everything to nothing then conversation steers towards sex. Then he makes a move and kissed me, but after a few seconds I froze up and pulled back. He was taken aback and asked me what was the matter. I told him about my previous relationship and not sure if I was ready to get into sex with another men so soon. He seemed pretty understanding and we talked a bit and then I could see he tried to lighten the mood and make easy conversation.

After a while I relax again and was talking to him as though none of that happened before. Then, he brought me into his room and showed me his sex toys. He had a small shoe box of sex toys and I was really intrigued with all that. We went through one by one and explore the usage of each. By then I was wet and hot in my panty and wanted to tear down each others' clothes and ravished each other. But I knew my heart was probably not ready to do that yet and had to control my lust for this guy who was showing me his toys. Then he took out the next one and I asked him how to use that and he got down to show me the next instant. There I was sitting on the couch in front of his bed fully clothed and he was on his bed stark naked. That was a very big turn on and my controls on my runaway lusts were really hanging on a thread and I could felt myself dripping wet in the pussy. But I was determined to sit and enjoy the show. After all it is not everyday a girl gets a private show, a very sexy private show. He has the best looking cock I've seen and could not tear my eyes away. Then after a few minutes, he asked me if I wanted to give him a hand, I jumped in and helped him and gosh, that was the most erotic thing I've done so far. He was on his bed stark naked and I was standing at the end of the bed fully clothed but we were both involved in a very intimate act that only 2 people that at least have a decent trust in each other could do. Then he proceed to give himself a masturbation and he came after a while with me sitting on the couch at the end of the bed watching the entire show and getting very turned on with the sight in front of me. After he cum, we look at each other and smiled. That's was when I made a mental note to myself, the next time I meet this guy, hot sex is what we will have and smile knowingly to myself on that note.

After that we sat and talked for a while. It was about nearly 5pm when I told him I had to go as I had dinner arrangement with friends and make a move. On the way home, I sent him a text message telling him how horny and wet I still was even though it was after so long that I had left his place. I could hardly contain my lustiness and flushing face in public and he commented that it's such a shame we did not have sex. I replied with a simple note that next time we shall!
Since that lunch date, we have escalated to having a couple's profile in AMM, to doing things that I have never imagined I am capable of. We have so many stories of my many firsts that he introduces me to and so many sexy adventures that he himself told me that it's something new as well even though he was way more experience than me. It has now been about 9 months and counting and we have pushed way more boundaries than anyone could have in every sense and have more boundaries to explore still.

Stay tune and vote if you want to read more of our adventures.